Have you ever stopped to wonder what spirituality really is? Is there one single, universal path we’re all supposed to be walking? I was raised Christian—specifically Catholic—but over the years, the institutional religion, the system, and the Church effectively pushed me away. My spiritual search didn’t lead me back to any organized faith. Instead, I realized I didn’t want to be confined by any system at all. I want to know my own soul, find my own meaning, and not just accept pre-packaged answers.
There are over 8 billion people living on this planet right now. That means 8 billion souls and potentially 8 billion different perspectives on spirituality. Each one of them is interesting and valuable because it comes from a unique human being looking for answers to timeless questions. That’s exactly why this blog exists—not to repeat what’s already been written, but to share just one of those 8 billion perspectives. Mine.
The Path Outside the System
Many of us are raised within specific religious frameworks. We learn rules, dogmas, and rituals that are supposed to point the way to the divine or the higher power. For some, this is a path that brings peace and a sense of belonging. But for others, myself included, it becomes a cage that limits authentic exploration.
Walking away from the institution didn’t mean rejecting spirituality for me. Quite the opposite—it marked the beginning of a real journey inward. I realized that spirituality doesn’t have to be locked behind the walls of churches, temples, or ashrams. It doesn’t need a name, a leader, or a holy book. It’s a personal, intimate relationship with your own soul and the universe around you. It’s the freedom to ask questions without fear of judgment and to seek answers within your own heart.
I Prefer to Inspire, Not Impose
I often get asked questions like: Do I believe in heaven and hell? What do I think about reincarnation? What is karma, and what is consciousness? Do we live in a matrix? Do we have one life or many? What’s the point of it all?
My answer is simple: I won’t give you those answers. Not because I don’t have my own thoughts—I do, but they are mine. They are the result of my experiences, reflections, and searching. What’s more, my perspective on these things might change in a year, or even a month. Spirituality is a dynamic process, not a collection of immutable truths.
Your answers shouldn’t depend on mine. Your path is yours alone. That’s why I prefer to inspire you to search and reflect rather than state facts. Instead of handing you ready-made solutions, I want to encourage you to become your own guide. This is the foundation of the philosophy I try to promote, which I wrote more about in my article “Be Your Own Guru”. It’s about taking responsibility for your own spiritual journey.
Every Perspective Matters
The topics I touch on here aren’t new. Thousands of books and millions of articles have been written about spirituality, the meaning of life, and the nature of consciousness. So, do I have anything new to add? Yes, I do. I have my unique perspective. And so do you.
There are 8 billion people, 8 billion souls, and there could be 8 billion blogs about spirituality, each unique because every person is different.
This thought stays with me every day. In a world that pushes for unification and standardization, we forget the value of individual experience. Every story, every reflection, every question is like a piece of a massive, cosmic mosaic. Without your piece, the picture will never be complete. Your search for meaning is just as important as mine and as that of every other human being on this planet.
Wondering why I started this blog and what inspired me to share my thoughts? Check out “In Search of Meaning: Why This Blog Was Created”. It’s a glimpse into my personal story and the purpose behind this space.
How to Find Your Own Way
Your spiritual path doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. You don’t have to meditate for hours, travel to India, or read ancient texts unless you feel that’s what’s calling you. Your spiritual practice could be a walk in the woods, journaling, painting, talking with a friend, or mindfully brewing your morning coffee.
Start by asking yourself questions:
- What makes me feel alive?
- When do I feel deep peace and a connection to something larger than myself?
- What values are most important to me?
- What am I really looking for in life?
Be patient and kind to yourself. Answers don’t always come immediately. Sometimes the most important thing is just being on the journey, staying open to what the next day and the next reflection bring.
Your Unique Journey
Don’t look for one ultimate truth. Instead, collect your own truths that resonate with you in the moment. Allow yourself to change your mind, to make mistakes, to doubt. It’s all part of the trip.
There is room on this planet for 8 billion spiritual paths. Yours is one of them—unique and incredibly valuable. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Start your journey, explore, question, and create your own definition of spirituality. The world is waiting for your story.
What does spirituality mean to you? I’d love to hear your perspective—share your thoughts in the comments below, or if you prefer, feel free to write to me directly at eckiamil@gmail.com. If you’d like to stay connected and keep exploring these ideas together, sign up for my newsletter or follow the blog for future reflections and inspiration.
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